long waited update

hell yeah...
finally i have come back to here once more...
sorry my long ignored private space of mine...
not my intention to ignore you..
hahaha...

alright..
continue with the post now..

the passing weekend was something for me...
1st - one of my bros birthday..
2nd - attending friend's convo...

for the 1st one..
i think is the first time i celebrate his birthday after knew him for so long..
first we planned to leave the time for him and his girl for the birthday celebration..
but i was told by his girlfriend that she has order a customized cake which weight about 2kg..
therefore, i went and ask the teammates see whether any of them would like to attend or not..
sadly not all can attend...
so we would just go with the rest of us..
his girlfriend was totally nervous bout celebrating his birthday...
and i kept telling her relax...
haha...
it's quite funny but very sweet though... =D
in the end, birthday surprise successful i guessed~?
and happy birthday to him..

2nd one is where one of my ex-housemate a.k.a my coursemate has ask me to attend his convo on sunday..
i've promised him to go and bought him a hand craft doll as present..
and the night before his convo, we are having a supper session just before the celebration of my bro's birthday..
i have been informed of the good news from him that he will going to be promoted as audit manager after 2 months, which 1 year since he starts working in that company since May last year...
and he had invited me to travel to KL two months later to find him..
i am glad that he had achieve success after a short period after finish study...
i felt kinda guilty to myself as others already move on to the other stage of their life already and i am still struggling and staying on the current stage like stuck in the muddy road...
it is a mix feeling of joy and guilt when seeing others finished their study and attended their convo...
so i guess i am pretty useless most of the time ya..

so just be it..
gonna hit the sack in a while...
good day, good morning and good night peeps...
=)

傻瓜，也蛮幸福吧？

我承认我很不喜欢一些人在背地里说三道四，而我自己也并非是这种人。
（除非情况需要我这样做以外）
俗语说得好：明枪易挡，暗箭难防。
我是个很单纯、憨直的家伙，有什么东西你都可以直接当着我面跟我说，好过在我背后说东说西的。
当着我面说，起码我还会视情况如何来找正确的对策，可能还有朋友可以做，因为我会衡量之前相处的好与坏而给与反应。
反而如果你要在背后来阴的，要么你我到死都不知道或都不被识破，要么让我知道后大闹一顿然后断绝来往。
我虽然算是个会记仇的人，但是我懂得给与别人机会。
如果我给了机会还是一样的话，那只好说再见了。
相信我已经把我很不喜欢被冤枉或被点名在跟我一点都扯不上关系的事物说了很多遍了。
我再重复，我真的不是很喜欢这样的感觉。
而且这也是蛮挑战我的忍耐度的，因为是我最不喜欢的前几名。。
当被给予不存在的罪名，然后再在面前咄咄逼人的被数落一番，自己也会觉得不好受吧~？
以其人之道还治其人之身，总有一天自己也会被他人以同样的方式对待。
况且，在口舌之战中称王称后的，很好听吗？会得到优待吗？
话说得没错，口齿伶俐的人，八九不离十也是个聪明伶俐的人。
但若从口中说出的净是些缺乏智慧的言论，说到底也只不过是在耍嘴皮子、耍小聪明罢了，根本称不上是个聪明人，还是该小心聪明反被聪明误。
我并不那么会举一反三，口条并不是那么好，所以很多时候我都是静静的听人家说。
但是起码我还会一点点分辨什么可以说，什么不可以说。
这也多得我妈从小的训导。
而且我妈从小就灌输我“能忍则忍”的概念，让我可以把事情看得更开一些，以至于避开一些不必要的烦恼。
所以我都把视野放宽，也不会拼了老命去钻牛角尖，人也比较开朗一些，更不会对问题久久都纠缠不放。

人生活着，也不过那短短的几十年，何必总是让烦恼把自己搞得那么的痛苦。
把视野放宽、放大，专注与快乐的事情和回忆，忽略不开心的那一块，那人也自然而然的变得更开朗些。
也许，也会长命一些。

或许，可以把自己当成一个“大傻瓜”吧~~~！
做个开心的傻瓜应该胜过做个烦恼多多的普通人吧~？
哈哈哈哈哈~！

A Brand New Year 2013

Muahahahaha....
I think it's been a very long time till my latest blog post...
But..
Who cares~?
Anyways, it's already another brand new year..
So, the count is reset and start all over again...
NEAT~!
=P

Alright..
Stop fooling around already...
I know it's quite late to blog about new year and Christmas already...
So, I'm not gonna make it very long...
Just simple will do...

How I celebrate these holidays~?
Oh ya..
One word with six letters...
S.I.M.P.L.E.

A simple dinner with bunch of buddies on a nice restaurant...
After that some dessert session with them..
Then went back home before 12am..
For new year eve..
Outing with my "sis" and her friends for a drink at Autocity...
We went there quite late due to the traffic congestion near to Juru there...
Me and her watched the fireworks inside the car when we still finding parking slot around there...
Then afterwards go find my bros to checkout what they discussing about...
Cause one of my bros is getting married on this coming Sunday ( 6 / 1 / 2013 )...
And we are his groomsmen, so need to discuss some stuffs together..
I guess within this year, i will be getting more and more weddings news from my friends around me..
So, just wish them live happily ever after...
Looking forward on this coming Sunday...
Hahaha...

Finally..
Attach the photo of the last day of last year...
Happy New Year 2013~!

First Basketball Champion for Open Category

Well well well...
Look who's back on his dusty blog...
Hahahaha....
Ya ya..
It's me...
The lazy ass blog owner...
'The Lazy-Lonely-Lion"..
>___<


Well...
I finally have the mood and inspiration to update my blog...
Here goes my update...

Left: First Basketball Open Gold Medal
Right: a disappointing Bronze Medal

Yup...
Yesterday was a very tiring day for me...
as i am having two competition that is going on in the same day..

but what i did before competition day was having liquor and party hard with my bros...

until i don't have enough time to rest and straight away off to campus for the sport carnival basketball match..

the smells of liquor is so strong until people around keep asking me is it i okay or not to play the game..

as i expected, stamina dropped and body balancing also got affected..

cant really perform well..

and in the get bronze medal out of three teams that participate..
which is in other words: the No.1 counted backward

but during the competition is going on..

something happened to one of my bro that participate in the game..

having a bone fracture on his head and he was shouting in pain...

we can clearly see that there is dent on the location where he's being hit..
then we quickly sent him to the Kampar Hospital for treatment..
and yet..
the stupid government hospital did disappointed us again with it's slow and inefficient service..

waited for almost an hour and a half..

he came out on a wheel chair headed to ambulance and waited to be sent to Ipoh GH to check in details..

Hopefully he's gonna be alright real soon...

During night time...
it's the Final of the Kampar Open Basketball Competition..

and the tiring me slept till i nearly forgot that i still got an important game to play..

after i saw the time showing 6:59pm, i faster get myself up and go prepare already..
because the match will start at 7:30pm...

and i go there with feeling dizziness after prepared...

i was sitting at the bench watching all my awesome teammates fighting hard to won the champion and giving them supports when every times out or break time after a quarter..

i got to go down on court and played the last few minutes of the 4th and last quarter of the game..
and that time the score of opponent team and us is very very close..

luckily we still can maintain our lead and make them got frustrated and foul on us..
in the end..

We Claimed The CHAMPION of this competition..

the feeling is so good!!

I am going to end here...
Readers, please stay tuned for next update ya..
Hahahahahahaha~~~~~

Finally, the photo of the CHAMPS~!

The awesome teammates for the Kampar Open Basketball Competition 2012
THE SHARK TROOPERS

《徘徊在电梯里的爱情》（二）

上文提要：

在詹姆被黄小姐狠狠地甩了以后，心里受着伤的詹姆变得比前还要孤僻、更少说话，看到其他住户时，也少了以往的点头与微笑，恐怖得来又让人多一份同情。。。


〈继续〉
詹姆对感情这样东西已经感到心灰意冷了，而他也觉得他需要好一阵子来振作起来。自从被甩以后，詹姆总是抱着一种“女人，都是不可靠、不可信赖”的态度来看待身边的女性。撇开自己的母亲还有两个妹妹不说，他总会对身边的女人多了一份提防的心，在和女性相处的时候也会刻意的划清界限。尤其是当他看到那些彷彿像只花蝴蝶一样的女生，在男生堆里打滚的时候，他的眼神会变得更加的锐利，而且充满了狠意，何其恐怖。

但是詹姆这个样子，却一直被某个人默默地关注着，詹姆的每一举一动都不会错过。而这个人，也是詹姆在这段时间里，唯一一个可以算是比较聊得来的女性朋友。她，是詹姆唯一情愿把心里所有的事情都告诉的人，也是唯一一个知道为什么詹姆会那么仇视那些女人的人。当然，也是暂时唯一一个了解詹姆的女人。这女人姓颜，故称她为颜小姐吧！话说，在詹姆刚被甩的某一天晚上，詹姆因为啤酒喝完了又觉得刚才的量麻醉不了自己，所以又到附近的便利超商买了一打的啤酒，踩着摇晃不定的步伐，慢慢的走回家。就在到达公寓庭院的时候，詹姆因为脚步不稳绊倒自己的脚，顿时跌了个狗吃屎。但是此时此刻的詹姆完全感觉不到疼痛，只是觉得眼前的一切都像是在经历着大地震般的晃动着。这时，有个小姐经过那里，看到詹姆那狼狈的样子，就急忙走过来看看詹姆。在问明白了詹姆的住址之后，便扶着詹姆进入公寓的大厅，搭着电梯把詹姆送回家去。在电梯里，酒精好像完全攻陷了詹姆似的，搞得他乱发酒疯，拼了命的一直数落着女人们的种种不是，却不知道此时此刻正在扶着他的也是一个女人。等到他发完了酒疯，头一歪，向旁一倒，便靠在那小姐的肩上，而那小姐为了只能让詹姆把头靠在她肩膀上了。到了詹姆家里，那小姐小心翼翼的扶着詹姆进入他的房间，然后让他躺在床上，再帮他敷上热毛巾，盖了被救准备离开了。就在要离开之际，詹姆突然间一把把那小姐的手抓着，然后口齿不清的喊着；“不要走~！你不要走~！”，无论那小姐怎么挣扎也挣不开詹姆的手，她也只好坐在詹姆的床边，看着他慢慢的冷静下来然后睡着。在看着詹姆入睡时，那小姐觉得这个男生的睡相挺可爱下，人应该也会蛮不错的。她也随之发现到詹姆床边的小矮柜上有一本便利贴，就随手拿过来然后拿出笔来，写下自己的联络号码，然后调皮的把便利贴贴在詹姆的额头，确定詹姆已经熟睡了以后就离开了詹姆的家。而这位好心的小姐，便是上面所提到的颜小姐啦！

当詹姆隔天醒来的时候，发现额头前好像被什么东西粘着，便把它取下来，才看到颜小姐留下的一番话还有联络方式。詹姆考虑了很久，把电话拿起来，按了几个号码又删掉，然后又把电话放在一边，一直在重复如此的动作。终于，在过了一个星期以后，詹姆终于写了一封信息，然后发给了颜小姐。

詹姆：谢谢你。
颜小姐：谢谢？请问你是？
詹姆：谢谢你那天晚上扶我回家，住在幸福公寓的。
颜小姐：我想起来了！就是那个醉得一塌糊涂的醉猫！哈哈！！
詹姆：真不好意思，麻烦你了。
颜小姐：没关系，没关系。怎么那么久以后才给人发信息呢？
詹姆：我那天过后都在忙嘛~

就这样，詹姆和颜小姐两个人就这样你来我往的发送着信息，联络了一段日子。过了一阵子，两人的信息就越来越暧昧，然后也越来越频密，直到了有一天，颜小姐通过信息问了詹姆这样的一个问题：

颜小姐：为什么你还不能忘掉之前的伤痛，而向前走呢？
詹姆：因为印象太深刻了，不是说忘掉就能忘掉。
颜小姐：如果说前面有个喜欢你的人在等着你呢？你舍得让她那么等下去吗？
詹姆：哎呀，我这样的人，哪有人会那么傻喜欢上我呢？真是好笑。
颜小姐：如果。。。如果我说我就是那个喜欢上你的傻瓜呢？
詹姆：哈哈哈~！！你就别跟我开玩笑，都我开心了啦！
颜小姐：我。。。我是认真的！！
詹姆：什么？！
颜小姐：我说我是认真的！我喜欢你！！想要当你的女朋友，照顾你，陪你走出悲伤！
詹姆：我。。。我。。。让我考虑考虑吧！明天会给你一个交代。
颜小姐：我。。。知道了。（哭脸）

整个晚上，詹姆都不能入眠，一直都在想着颜小姐提出当他女朋友的事情。詹姆会这样也是应该的，因为他和颜小姐虽然一直都在信息还有通过电话，但是却没见过一面。詹姆害怕着这会是一个玩笑，但是当他回想起颜小姐那无微不至的关心，时时都那么关心着他，虽然只能通过电话还有信息，但詹姆确实地能够感受到颜小姐的关怀，所以这也是为什么他迟迟都不能作出决定的原因。经过一夜的深思熟虑，终于詹姆接受了颜小姐的告白，两人正式成为了情侣。成为了情侣之后，彼此间变得更亲密，在信息里、在电话里都不难发现那比蜜糖还要甜的甜蜜话语，甚至两人都一起买了同款的笔电，然后透过笔电的摄像头看看彼此的模样，还截图把图当成自己手机的背景图案。

詹姆又陷入了甜蜜的爱河里了，天天都以笑脸面对大家，大家都在为他开心。


*待续*


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