important

hey ya~
it's been days since the last time i updated my blog..
so..
i'll be update it again today..


BUT..
before i start writting, let me ask u,all the guys out there:
Who is the most importatn people for you?? (family, friend or girlfriend?)


For me, my answer would be family, friend then just will be my girlfriend.
i know when i give this answer, the girls will surely stand up and complaint about this statement.
So, let me explain one by one ok?
The reason why i put the order like this is because family is the most important to me, if i don't hav a family, there is totally won't have me!
Being a family member is forever and irreplaceable.
we cannot simply go and replace our family member.
we had bounded to the family ever since we came to this world.
myab some girls will said, now your family is important than me right?? is it i am nothing to you?? why are you being selfish to me?? and many more stupid questions.
Let me make it straight guys, will you being together with a girl that don't like you respecting and caring for your family?or totally don't like your family?
For me, if i knew that the girl is like this, i would chop a big 'REJECTED" word on her forehead before i'll getting closer with her.
The reason is simple yet still got girls that dunno this..
the reason is, girls that don't know how to respect other people can be categorized as brainless and stupid. WHY??
look at yourself girl!! you are just a girlfriend, also nt yt to be his wife, what for you critic so much on his act of caring towards his family?? somemore you are just an outsider that mean nothing to him comparing you to his family that he grew up there, learn how to walk and talk and he's been staying there since he was born.
so, don't be such a dumbass ok?!


as for my second order, which is second most important people to me is my friend.
why i put friend first instead of girlfriend?
the reason is...
in my opinion, friendship is forever and won't easily break up except for some serious problems such as betrayal, going for same girl/guy and etc.
i believe that guys and girls nowadays like to make many friends, from primary school till high school then university and at the workplace.
why need to make so much friends??
the answer is easy!! because friends can come in handy when you are in trouble, they can lend a hand whenever you need their helps.
for some people, making friends and socialize with them are very important to them as they are involved in the industry that will require them to have a large network that will makes their work become easy.
Especially for men!!
they need to earn money to feed the whole family, so they need to build their network as big as possible to let their works operate smoothly.
But there are still some simple-minded girls that don't know how to twist their mindset.
They tend to control all the movement of their boyfriend/husband and tend to stick to their boyfriend/husband as frequently as possible, so that all the time is just for them only.
This is a STUPID ACT!!
Try to think about it, if you don't allow him to go and socialize with his fren,colleagues or even customer, where will him get the resourse or income to buy gifts, bags for you or going out on a date with you or even marry with you??
when you starting to control over his outing with his friends, means that you are trying to break up his friendship and network indirectly and slowly when his friend starting to notice that, the friendship is on its way to doom~!
and whenever this happen, he will be very suffering.
when he is suffering, you also will suffer.
So, what for making him and yourself suffer in the same time?!!




i think that is all i want to say for tonight..
if tomorrow i still remember, i will ask the question to the girls too~!
and for the statement i have gave above, is only an opinion of mine..
nt to say that i want to assault the girls, because the statement i gave can goes for guys as well...
So, just leave a comment and tell me what you think...


Happy debating~! haha